If your partner is experiencing any of these symptoms, it's important not to take it personally and to be understanding. So, men, get your pencils out. When these two factors are accounted for, the disparity in men's and women's willingness to have casual sex completely disappears. For some women, pain or discomfort during sex can be the result of couples prioritizing vaginal intercourse over other sexual acts. A growing wealth of research suggests that negative body image can make women distracted and self-conscious during sexwhich can seriously detract from pleasure. So it's not really surprising that when it comes to heterosexual sexwomen still don't always get an equal opportunity Making sex to woman by man have a great time.