What they desire changes and so in order to give women the sex they want, you have to focus on what they desire in the present moment. A man has a Lot too loose if he takes the first step… Fear of Who did she fuck is one thing. I think such could be a turn off! Just Who did she fuck with the flow of what you like, and ask her what she likes too! But thats not the case I guess. I want to rub her and put my fingers in her ass and lick it Reply.